We Are Who We Choose To be
Are you the life you want to live? Basically, life is a matter of choices and the sum of all the choice we choose. Direction of lives comes down to the choive we make because every choice we make, makes us. Some we regrets, some we are proud of, and some will haunt us forever.
Choice is everywhere. In whatever you do, wherever you go, whomever you want to be with, how you want it to be better, why you want to be, it all starts and ends up with a choice. These choices, however determine a big extent to your happiness and unhappiness. Also, choice is always yours, and it has a great impact to your life.
May I ask you: "Do you really want this strand you are taking right now?" Or maybe some of you are having a doubt to your chosen strand because you are not the one who choose it, right? Well, count me in. My sister chooses this for me, and at times, I am wondering, should I continue? What if I fail? Then, a question popped up in my mind, "What if, this choice was powerful, something that will took me to the direction of my dreams?" better than I thought it would be. She chooses this for me because she believed in me, so do I. And probably, I am the one responsible to make it happen.
Making choices is also making changes in life. It matters as long as you live your life the way you want. You just have to take the right actions. This is because even the most little decisions we make was important to bring the results we wanted. In additon, we cannot do things without a choice. Simply because, we should choose first before doing it.
Yes, we can have different choices with different results but move on with it, it is all part of growing up. Let us consider this as a piece of advice: do not live oin the shadow of people's judgement. Make your own choices to light your own wisdom. Choose a life not to deny your humanity but to embrace it. To feel the freedom from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices. Lastly, it is your life. It is your choice. Your mistakes will going to be your lesson. It is none of their business! As Barry Manilow said, "We are who we choose to be!"
